[sybregunne]

I have a toddler now. It is quite difficult to explain why I find that having a kid is good. It makes me lose sleep at night, it prevents me from doing some stuff that I WANT to do because I have to be with my baby, and worst of all having a baby is a financial constraint and it prevents me from upgrading my tech stuff. But all this has benefits.

for one you can never ever replace the emotion you will feel seeing your baby for the first time. It goes beyond description. Then when you get home after work or even for your lunch break and theres a toddler telling you stuff you cannot understand. Well money cannot compensate you for that. then whenever you are troubled, just one smile from your kid can make you forget your troubles. well at least for a while. Then regarding those tech-stuff I always wanted... well I don't really need them. So over-all I think having a kid is great, but with great things come greater responsibilities.